Blazes and Cairns: Week of July 3, 2017

The wonderful people in my life. Humor, love, and perspective. A manager who listens to and takes me seriously. Sleeping in. Groceries delivered. Rest. Kisses on the neck. Pancakes with chocolate chips and bananas. Laughter. Brisk walks in quiet Iowa towns. Naps, baths, and sexy times. Jack’s Mexican pizzas. Guest passes at the gym. A new therapist. Brunch w/ bextie. Creating badass half sheets. Thoughtful and trans competent doctors. Hot…

Blazes and Cairns: Week of June 5, 2017

If you needed to go to the hospital in the middle of the night, who would you call to take you? There was a time in the not-so-distant past where I didn’t have an answer to that question. I was single, living alone, and my community ties were young and new. The fact that I didn’t know who I would call left me feeling sad, lonely, and a little afraid.…